Faith

 So, you walk into a room and flip on a switch.  Why?  It’s because you know if you do that a light will come on.  Not to sound like a 4 year old… but why?  Do you understand the mechanics that go into electrons moving to make that happen… like why DOES an electron do that?  We have labels for each process, but in the end science says it happens because it happens.

The same is true for starting your car, knowing something thrown up will come down, and more.  There are labeled processes and principles that describe it, but do YOU know WHY?

Of course, the answer is no.  Most of us don’t give it a second thought.  We just accept it and act on our FAITH that it will happen.  Every day we take acts of faith.. faith that you will be paid for your job.. faith that the sun will rise and fall… faith that other cars will follow the same traffic laws you do.

So, how difficult is it, really, to apply the same to dating and relationships?  You may not know or understand the specifics, but if you keep putting yourself out there among others that are also looking, you can believe others will see.  Odds are that some of them share your values and interests, so eventually you will find what you are seeking.  

But… it doesn’t happen, unless you believe to reach out and flick the switch.  If you doubt and don’t, your faith will determine your future, as well.