Friday, February 10, 2023

Going Quiet for 6 Months

I touched on this on media, but I wanted to do a blog post about it as well. Over the last six months or so I have been debating between having a relationship and trying to satisfy those needs in other ways, such as relying on friends for social connection and more. However it is becoming clear to me that a romantic relationship is the only thing that’s going to satisfy this need. There have been times when I was low when I needed someone expressing concern or care or empathy, and there are times that I have done well that I wanted someone to celebrate with me. However when you are in your lowest or when you have succeeded, my experience has taught me that’s when people grow the most silent. 

A few weeks ago I had a auto issue on the other side of Tampa Bay 28 to 30 miles away from my home it was late at night and I couldn’t get a friend or anyone to even pick me up.  I had to get my boss from my work to take me home. Then,  I did some amazing financial moves and got myself in a great financial position from now going forward and posted about it and got almost no response. I don’t blame the people that’s on the apps. I blame myself for expecting them to be closer than was fitting. The reality is only the person that you’re closest to with whom you have pledged mutual concern and connection will be there for you.

There is a business management and financial inspiration saying that says you should take six months off where are you go quiet and focus on your needs without distraction and without an audience and you’ll see amazing results. That’s my intention that after this post I am going to go silent online blogs you know posts and more (only posting to Instagram which flows to dating apps) and address the solutions of the things that I need in all areas of my life and get set up for what I am looking for. If you want to reach me my messenger Facebook messenger will stay active. Or, message me via Instagram.. JustwaitKC123.

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