In the midst of the wasteland that is called conservative America, you can find glimpses of beauty and style. One of those would be ballet, although ...if you are having lunch with a conservative couple (as we did), you may hear from the man, "Oh, she made you go see that...i had to endure one, too."
Which was the point at which I knew I would have nothing in common with this guy...like almost all guys, since I for my whole life have fit more in the category of girl with my attitudes and personality, always having women friends that liked me for being more like them than their husbands.
However being openly feminine means I can ENJOY artistic things like ballet with my wife, so on this Trans Day of Visibility, I would recommend you become more public, if you are trans. The reaction you will get is exactly the one you need to establish the right crowd to be in.
But, back to ballet. This is a art of MOVING beauty...as if a painting or sculpture came to life. Plus, it is a great workout to do their moves and works all the right parts. The combination of movement, lighting, and music is hard to beat for a date night...and not that expensive if you do the team b group performances or if you can stand the balcony (I can't for fear of heights). Try it, and you'll be hooked.