In a world that seems increasingly divided and judgmental, I am going to do a post that counters that and counters how I have very often in my life felt that things should be approached. It is positive, but it is also dark... because so very often those of the "light" have been the ones that most often violates it. You will understand as the blog develops. Today, I was reflecting on how so very often my perception of someone is very accurate, because I look in their eyes and watch their behavior and seek to understand their personality.... not just their appearance or a temporary or hormonal reaction. Then, I considered someone who I had very recently turned out much different than I thought that it would be and saw a side of them that I had not seen. I do not intend to go into details of any of that, other than to say that while there was new things that I saw and experienced ... upon my reflection... the things that I initially saw in them remained and remains ...