People will tell you, wisely, after a breakup to take time to reflect and grow. It is very good in this period to be very real with yourself and find ways you can improve or ways that you were different and so on. However, I do not think this should be relegated to after breakups but before, as well.
From a lifetime of experience in reflection and without any details, I can tell you that one thing I see as a flaw in myself was not really taking the time to know myself and what it is that I need. Or, if I did, I would set that aside and feel that I could make it work, differently, because I felt they were so special.
One counselor that I see video clips from online said one thing that I feel is a good thing to remember, "just because someone is a good person does not mean they are your person." We need to make sure to use our mind to limit our hormones or emotions, otherwise you will face as I have a lifetime of consequences of not doing that, first.
People are different, and that is a good thing. Not all differences are deal breakers, but some that relate to emotional needs and abilities are. So, be careful as you move forward in life. There is nothing wrong with staying single and enjoying the person you are and love. Sometimes, you discover you aren't broken just in the wrong circles or audience. I hope you have a good weekend .. even if only by yourself.
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