I think sometimes we miss the opportunity to follow opportunities, because our mindset is still stuck on things out of our control from the past. When the reality of the situation is that there is a bright side to everyhing, even the things we think is dark.
I think a good way of approaching it is to begin with the statement... if I HAVE to, then... and then follow that statement with a positive alternative or quality. If I have to exercise to get fit, then I am going to run races and buy workout gear I like. If I HAVE to work, then I am going to enjoy my paycheck. If I have to be single, I am going to enjoy my single life. If a situation or environment not pleasant, there are so many ways to change that, as well.
In any moment of our lives, we choose our perspective and our response. What does it benefit us to think on things that are lost, when we can use that same time to prepare for what is to come. I know that some things and people were important in the past, and those memories are good to have. I love my time with my kids, for example. And, there could be happy days with them in the future, as well. But, right now, they are not present. So, if I HAVE to live that reality, I am going to enjoy my days on my own, til and if they are part of the story, again.
Life happens, and so much of that life is out of our hands. But, there is so much that is in our power to affect and do, as well. So, whatever has happened in your life that might feel dark only makes it easier to see and follow the light, until you find your own bright side of life. And, I hope you love where it takes you.
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