I know the name of this blog is Forward to Happiness, but I hope that you have understood in my messages that you do not have to wait til the end to find happiness. Happiness is a journey that just keeps giving. It is a seed that blooms into a much larger life. It is not so much a destination as it is a way of life.
You probably have seen a significant change in the overall tone of my playlists and posts, and that is because I am making a conscious effort to be focused upon what I want and not what I lack, what is possible more than what is lost, what I can create and become more than what did not work. It is part of that positive mindset that I have been talking about and moving towards for months, now. There is little purpose in focus on anything else.
So, I want to do this post to say in effect that you care allowed to feel happy, now. Some people feel like they cannot be happy til they find... the one. And, they might even feel that it is disloyal to be happy on your own without someone, but that is based in a wrong sense of self image and balance. You were born alone. You will die alone. Most of your minutes of your days will be alone, regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not. THAT is the person to whom you should be spending your most alliegience and priority. Others will come and go, but you will always have you.
That said, others CAN be a priority, if they are family or close to you and care for you. But... and this is important... THEY should want you to love you, so your needs are still important. I do not want you to use that to weaponize an attack on anyone, though. Because, we do way too much of that. Life should NOT be about finding fault in others. Life should be about what it literally is about... your hierachy of needs. Everyone was born uniqute, and those that live this life have their own needs like a key. We waste too much time in focus on keys that do not work or waiting for a key that does work, because YOU will always have the master key that will open every door, becase YOU are your first love.
So, take a beat. Ignore others. Think of your heart and be there for ie. Have fun. Live life. Love yourself, which will result in love for others. Hope for the future, and grow into the full being you were always meant to be but felt you couldn't because it didn't resonate in others. You are worthy.