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The Party of Hypocrisy

I spent way too long in the party of hypocrisy, defending their bipolar narcissist swings, but it's time they were called out on it.

For example in the years after the Covid outbreak, the party would scream my body my choice about being free to decide what to do with their own bodies in being able to choose whether to get a vaccine.  Then, they switched to now wanting to stop people from choosing to TAKE the vaccine.  Similarly, they are now wanting to stop even adults from taking hormone blockers for transgender procedures (while having no problems with viagara to get it up for sex), stop women from reproductive health choices, and more.

They also spent decades saying they don't have religious freedom, only to start mandating their version of faith upon everyone when they get into power.  They claimed state rights was supreme over federal power, til they got federal power.  Now, they want to stop states from defending college diversity programs, environmental protections, and more.  They claimed they wanted to support cops, only to start targeting federal law enforcement for elimination.  

The list goes on and on.  I left the party years ago in part when I realized what they say about themselves wanting freedom does not equate to freedoms they give to other points of view.  In the end in their mind, there is only one way.  When that is out of favor, they claim victimization.  When they get power, they see themselves as the instrument of God to impose their view on others.  And, that is both the definition of fascism and the exact qualities of a narcissist.. which I've had way too much experience in knowing.  I've given way too much support to those with which I disagree, only to have support for myself cut the moment they disagree with me.  We will not know freedom, until we separate ourselves from those who cannot stand us being.... ourselves.

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